I don't think "reaching out" ( to use the modern term for contacting others) to all us randoms on an internet forum as a good way to get good advice over a subject as specialist, complex, and potentially a device of death or serious injury as a motor car is the best idea, tbh, Maureen.
The real life advice of reputable professional car mechanics is the advice to heed, imo.
If they say work needs doing now, get it done now, if they say it needs doing at a point in the future then, unless the money is burning a hole in your pocket, get it done by the recommended point in time.
Keep your car legal, keep your car safe for you and other road users - but you know all this, anyway, I'm sure.