Divorce Settlement - Any Comments?

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From The Guardian online:

Cheating Wife Awarded More Than $40M

Friday March 25, 2005 8:31 PM

BRIDGEPORT, Conn. (AP) - A judge has awarded the former wife of a multimillionaire businessman a divorce settlement worth more than $40 million even though she admitted having affairs with her rock-climbing guide and a man she met on a flight to China.

In addition to a $24 million payment, Susan Sosin will keep the couple's $3.6 million Manhattan apartment, $2 million Utah ski house and $800,000 home in Wallkill, N.Y. But she has to vacate the couple's two mansions in Connecticut and three desert properties in Arizona.

In the divorce granted Wednesday, she also gets to keep $6 million in her brokerage accounts, eight cars and $2.9 million in jewelry, including a ruby piece her husband had bought for her but hadn't given to her prior to their divorce.

Richard Albrecht, attorney for Sosin's husband, Howard, estimated the total value of the award at $43 million, or 27 percent of the estate. She wanted half, he said.

"My opinion is her conduct in this matter affected the award,'' Albrecht said.

Susan Sosin's lawyer, Frederic J. Siegel, estimated the total value of the award was about $45 million and said his client asked for about 45 percent of the estate.

"By anybody's standards, it's a large amount of money,'' Siegel said. "Both parties will be able to move on with their lives.''

Siegel said both sides were at fault for the divorce and defended his client as a good mother.

Howard Sosin, 54, who founded AIG Financial Products in 1987, filed for divorce after discovering his wife's relationships in February 2003. During an upgrade of their computer system, he found hundreds of e-mails between his wife and her lover, according to testimony.

Susan Sosin, 51, admitted in testimony that she had become intimate with a guide while rock climbing in 1996, though she said it was a spontaneous and isolated occurrence. During a flight to China in 2000, she met a married man, and that led to a lengthy affair, according to testimony.

"The parties' marriage has been undeniably marred by the defendant's infidelity,'' Superior Court Judge Howard Owens stated in his verdict. "Although her sexual relationship was not the sole cause of the breakdown, it did effectively terminate the marriage.''

Howard Sosin's wealth was estimated at $168 million. Among the assets he gets to keep are $89 million in bank accounts, 10 of the couple's 18 cars, $960,000 worth of private club memberships and $22 million in fine art.

The couple met in 1978 when Howard Sosin was an assistant professor at Columbia University. At the time, she was married to another man and working in retail.

Howard Sosin served as the president and chief operating officer of AIG Financial Products until 1993 when he left the company. Following litigation, he received $182 million from AIG.
 
That seems a very strange case. I find it hard to believe that she was entitled to a penny, after all she was in the wrong.
 
Quick,
spend the lot.Don't let the thieving ************* get anywhere near it.Give to the homeless or mindless,a dog,two dogs.A burgler.krizon,even.
 
Conduct plays a minor role in matrimonial cases . Large awards to wives are common generally to recognise that they gave up their careers etc to support high flying husbands
 
Usually it is the high flying businessman who has been off shagging whilst wife has been at home bringing up the kids . I think the award to that woman is about right .
 
Nah, seriously now - I can see why women can get awarded more. We had to go into it when my parents divorced; my Mum was going to settle for being shafted by my Dad so my Mum's cousin paid for her to have a hot shot divorce solicitor from the City to fight her corner & she got a lot more than she would have done otherwise. It was a very hard time for all of us as unless my Dad had coughed up she would have struggled to survive & I was forced to take sides as it was literally survival of the fittest, Mum was in pieces & couldn't handle anything at all, we had to make her fight. Dad to this day has still refused to sell our family home which I still find very distressing as his bit on the side is a year & a half older than me & has two rugrats - I have to watch them being brought up in my home by my father who was not present for myself & my brother when we gew up. Anyway, Mum did ok in the end & my Dad pays her alimony as although myself & my brother are 27 & 25 & we had both moved out at the time of the divorce (actually, Jim lives with Dad now!!!) the courts ruled (as James pointed out) that she had sacrificed her career for Dad to bring up his kids - they were married for 26 years, together for 30.
 
Yes, James - in my case my beloved father was the high-flying businessman shagging his poxy temp......& now bringing up her bloody children that she had with some other bloke (she has never been married) & paying for them too as the CSA are fecking useless.
 
My wife and i got married on the 6th of March 1964 and are still very,very happily married.

As in most things,it takes two to tango.

I feel very sorry for the posters on this thread if they have suffered distress during marraige.
 
I think it's truly, truly smashing that people stay happily married. I don't know why, I saw some little tiny glimpse on some film about Italy this week which was so endearing - an obviously adoring mother with two happy children, and it was very touching. I think achieving a loving family (or just 'together') relationship is marvellous. I think that when someone has an external affair, then something is either missing in the partnership, or missing in the psychology of the person having the affair. Perhaps Mrs Sosin didn't feel valued in the marriage, but valued by her rock-climber, or perhaps the marriage was dull and stale, and the affair represented whatever was missing with the husband?

It's a big settlement, all right, but if I had to choose, I'd far rather have a happy marriage than all the riches beyond the dreams of Croesus.

Ahem! Except I'm NOT married, and if Mrs Sosin finds this wealth an intolerable burden, my phone number is 01273 555666... :D (And thanks for thinking of me, Derek, it's much appreciated - bung in a good word with the dear lady, will you? 15% commission guaranteed.) ;)
 
It seems like only yesterday we got married.......if it was tomorrow I'd cancel it


Thinks "Second cheap shot in a week there DG"
 
I don't think that this lady "gave up a career to support a high-flying husband". She gave up a previous husband to live the life of Riley, with a substantial staff to look after her. You can bet that she didn't have to worry about using a radiator instead of ironing.
 
So what . No doubt as they were married for a long time she contributed to the marriage . The judge noted it was not the only cause of the breakdown . The article is deliberately slanted we have no idea whether they had children or not for a start. What emotional support she gave him through bad times etc
 
I heard from the grapevine in Banstead that some guys Mrs is getting the house, the cars, the holiday tickets... he gets to keep his Cheltenham portfolio..
 
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