Michael Barrymore's Ex Wife Dies

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Cheryl Barrymore, ex-wife of troubled TV host Michael, has died suddenly.

The 56-year-old was diagnosed with lung cancer six weeks ago, but had kept it hidden from all but the very closest of friends and family.

Cheryl, 56, died at St John and St Elizabeth Hospital in St John's Wood, north London on Friday, her friend, Max Clifford, said.

She had chosen not to have chemotherapy or radiotherapy, and slipped into a coma on Thursday.

Cheryl and Michael Barrymore were married for 22 years but divorced in 1997. She acted as his manager and was credited with taking him to stardom.

Michael now lives in New Zealand with his partner Shaun, and had no contact with Cheryl after their acrimonious split.

Cheryl was previously married to theatre producer Greg Smith, from 1970 to 1973, after a whirlwhind romance. She turned to him again when Michael announced he was gay 10 years ago.

Then in 2001 Michael became embroiled in controversy again when a man, Stuart Lubbock, drowned in the pool at his Essex home during a wild party.

Michael, who had been smoking a joint in a bedroom, fled the scene, checking into rehab the next day. The coroner recorded an open verdict and Michael was later cautioned for possession of cannabis.

Cheryl's claims, that Michael perjured himself during the inquest by claiming he couldn't swim and therefore couldn't have dived in and saved Lubbock, came to nothing,

It took Cheryl years to get back on her feet after her divorce from Michael - she eventually acted as TV agent to Rebecca Loos, former EastEnders actress Daniella Westbrook and comic Freddie Starr.

At the time she said: "It has taken me all this time to get back to being me again. After Michael, it was extremely difficult to work.

"It took years to get over the shock but I would never want to go back to that life again. It was so traumatic."

In 2003, she was taken to hospital after a rare virus left her with perforated ulcers in the stomach, and was on life support for eight weeks.

Announcing her death, Max Clifford said on Friday: "The doctors told her that treatment might have given her a bit more time but she didn't want all that. She wanted to make the most of what time she had left.

"This has happened so quickly and we are all devastated. She was a lovely lady, so bright and bubbly. She was getting over Michael when she found out she was ill.

"I suppose she will be best remembered as playing an important part in building the career of a man who was one of the biggest stars in British television."
 
Good grief - only six weeks from diagnosis to death. You have to wonder how much damage emotional stress, especially if it's long-lasting, does to the body, by lowering its' immunity to such rampant diseases. That's very young to go, and very sad that a large piece of her life was blighted by what appears to be Barrymore's total self-absorption.
 
Originally posted by jejquade@Apr 2 2005, 09:15 PM
She was not exactly the nicest person herself. But no one deserves that.
Personally I wouldn't make comment about someone who cannot answer back , bad taste
 
Fair enough , ever heard "don't speak ill of the dead " ? Noone asked your opinion , you weren't provoked . In fact YOU started the thread . Lung Cancer is a horrible disease . Do you not want to step back and say thank Christ that wasn't me , instead of attacking the woman /. She's not even cold .
 
I didn't attack the women. The cancer did. Yes i am perfectly aware of how nasty lung cancer is thankyou. There is no point glossing someone up and lying. Yes she's died its very sad and i feel very sorry for her. But it does come to us all, and if and when i die i would rather people were honest about thier feelings about me than blowing sunshine up my arse through their own guilt. I'd have more respect for someone who spoke the truth.
 
"Blowing sunshine up your arse"? Wow! That sounds pretty good to me! Got a phone number?

Calm down now, you two, don't go a-snappin' and a-snarlin' at each other again. You'll only damage your immune systems.
 
Originally posted by jejquade@Apr 2 2005, 09:15 PM
She was not exactly the nicest person herself. But no one deserves that.
Was that necessary ? I take it you know her personally ?
 
This is a forum , you're obviously very opinionated so I can't understand your sudden aversion to debate. Will you not have a constructive arguement and answer the question ?
 
Ok. No i on't know her personally, but have seen her enough to be able to draw my own opinion of her. But like i have said no one deserves to have whats happened to her. My new job i have to deal with people with terminal illness all the time its very upsetting.
 
Originally posted by jejquade@Apr 3 2005, 01:08 AM
Ok. No i on't know her personally, but have seen her enough to be able to draw my own opinion of her.
You may work with persons with terminal illness but I would guess you've never suffered the loss of a close family member and I pray you never do . If you had you wouldn't deal with death so lightly.
 
One has to say with the clients listed above, it would not be difficult to come to what might be an erroneous decision about the lady of whom I know absolutely, BUGGER ALL!!

Colin
 
Originally posted by solerina+Apr 3 2005, 01:25 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (solerina @ Apr 3 2005, 01:25 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-jejquade@Apr 3 2005, 01:08 AM
Ok. No i on't know her personally, but have seen her enough to be able to draw my own opinion of her.
You may work with persons with terminal illness but I would guess you've never suffered the loss of a close family member and I pray you never do . If you had you wouldn't deal with death so lightly. [/b][/quote]
Thats where you are wrong. But thats the problem with people in this country, they're are so scared of dying they just can't talk about it . And if someone is comfortable with death people who aren't tend to get very angry with them thinking they don't care.

Everybody cares, but its a question on whether you accept and embrace it. Its inevtiable so there is no point being scared of it and trying to hide away.
 
Ongoing app Brian. You don't just walk into a Police Station for 1 interview and oh look your a cop. Its takes months, and the Force i want to join takes 6 months at least to process everything.
 
Originally posted by an capall@Apr 3 2005, 01:25 PM
Is the process so long to ensure and intelligent caring person doesn't slip through?
Your opinion. Don't make assumptions about people just because you can't get your head round what they say.
 
Brilliant Colin - jumping to conclusions seems to be the mark of many police officers
 
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