Yes, she married my father - John. He was a bright lad who'd gone to sea with his brother Peter, and their father, who held a Square-rig ticket (to captain schooners and the like), sailing to places like Rio when he was just 16. She married him after meeting him in a London club. Keeping to his marine upbringing (he and his family came from Southsea), he joined the RNVR (Royal Navy Volunteer Reserve) and was assigned to Motor Torpedo Boats on Coastal duties (the Channel) during WWII. He was 2nd Lt. on board MTB 671 when it and the two accompanying MTBs were 'engaged' by three German Moewe-class ships off the French coast in April 1944.
An almighty set-to took place, two of the MTBs escaped, battered, back to Portsmouth harbour, but my Dad's was blown to bits when one of the Moewe's decided to turn full guns on it. Only two of the crew of 32 survived - my father wasn't among them.
The sad thing is that while the bodies were retrieved for burial, but my Mother knew none of this, or the frantic phone calls from John's parents and the Navy to inform her, because she'd got appendicitis and been taken to hospital. He was a week buried before she was eventually told. She'd never seen his grave, but last year I drove us down to Haslar Naval Cemetery, a very pretty spot overlooking the Solent, to view it. One grave away was his Lieut. They'd been best man at each other's weddings.
So... after I was born in the December of that year, I was christened 'Jon'. John, without the 'h'. I've got photos of him, and Mother had a very short, but intensely happy, time with him. Apparently he was great fun, confident, witty, charming, bright, and also tall and handsome, too! B)
The Post Script to this is that after his brother Peter returned from POW camp, having been captured after hiding out for three days following the hopeless 'Operation Market Garden' para drop over Arnhem, he courted my Mother and THEY eventually married! He was a smashing bloke, though different in personality to his bro. She's drawn the line at three, though... :blink: