OK children - here's the deal....
Swirly posted a personal, offensive (language content unacceptable) topic with 'Kathy' in the heading soley intended to provoke her.
I happened to log on minutes after it was posted and deleted it immediately - no one contacted me directly, btw - I saw it, it was unacceptable, it went. Simple as that.
If such postings continue, they will also continue to be deleted when I see them, no matter who is the author.
Obviously, from time-to-time, different members on here go through various personal problems and then they use this forum as some sort of personal safety valve and, quite frankly, seem to take it out on various members. That isn't fair - use PMing for that, please, if you must. The four of us mods do have better things to do than constantly check up on content, which over the past few days seems to have been the norm.
I am now locking this thread as it's going nowhere.