I can understand anyone being annoyed at how xmas has become but it's the same as everything in life - you need to take out of it what you enjoy, and forget about the rest.
For me, xmas is the most enjoyable time of the year. Go back to Ireland, drink proper guinness, relax at home, catch up with friends, watch hours of fantastic racing, eat too much and get fat, walk the dog and leisurely read a book and the papers every day.