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solerina
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Sorry for imposing but I would really appreciate any advice or help you can offer. I currently live in our family home with my mother and brother . Mr brother is a pretty hardcore bottle a day alcoholic who hasn't worked for 5 yrs . We are buying a flat for him after 5 long years because we have exhasted every avenue to try to raise his moral to enter rehab and now the situation has become untennable . He is violent and unpredictable . He will not accept any form of help nor will he leave my 70yr old mother in peace because she is so fraught with worry for what will happen to him due to ill health . We thought that he could claim housing benefit and seeing as how he has been living gratis for 5yrs on my mums savings then it was only fair that the state picks up the tab when he's beyond the pale .
I was the one who suggested buying a flat and I never thought that there would be a conflict because of the background but my mum went to citizens advice today and they said there could be a problem . Please can I get your experiences on this ?
I was the one who suggested buying a flat and I never thought that there would be a conflict because of the background but my mum went to citizens advice today and they said there could be a problem . Please can I get your experiences on this ?