I WHAT??? Cut and paste that evidence immediately!
I don't believe in 'forgiveness'. It probably is Divine, if you believe in a Divinity, which I don't. 'Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us' - don't see how that fits with 'an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth' in the same book of rules. We're treated to the mumbo-jumbo of cod psychiatrists saying that if you forgive your aggressor, you free yourself of the toxin of anger/hate/resentment and can 'move on'. Bollocks. All you're really doing is deciding not to think about whatever the event was and saying that it no longer has the power to harm you. You're not actually saying that the action taken - rape/mutilation/maiming/killing of a loved one - is forgiven, as in of no importance. You're just deciding that your mind can be put to better use than thinking of it all the time. But to say that you've 'forgiven' the perpetrator of the horror is delusion.
I believe in retribution in proportion to intent. If I kill someone in self-defence, that's all it is. Get on with life. If I kill someone in France's version of a crime of passion - pushed beyond endurance by a brutal spouse or domineering parent (think Lizzie Borden) - set me a reasonable amount of time out of society, to cool down and rehabilitate myself. If I set about killing, directly or by order, thousands or millions of people on the basis of their gender, race, belief, geography - I'm clearly nuts, because this is not logical behaviour, and need to be removed forever from society. Lock me up or shoot me - there is no morality that's superior to either course of action - because I've shown that given the power, I'm an irrational, psychopathic megalomaniac who'll abuse it unchecked.
Killing is part of natural behaviour. We kill billions of times a day, all over the globe, for food, for example, and without thinking twice about boiling dogs and lobsters alive, fishing, trapping, shooting, and slitting throats. We abort babies if they present a threat to the mother's health and enough societies still leave their baby girls out to die (India, China, to name but two we know about) in rubbish tips or fields, because they represent a financial drain on their families. (Birth control seems to be viewed as a slander upon men's ability to spread their seed.) We still don't quite know what to do about euthanasia (bring it on, I say, 'cos I want that for myself if I ever get old and frail enough), and we haven't any qualms about going into wars to right wrongs for ourselves or other humans.
What isn't natural, though, is killing each other based not on aggression or attack from the other side, but on picking a fight on the grounds of the other's 'difference'. I'm Protestant, you're Catholic - boom-boom. I'm a Muslim, you're a Jew - I'll kill you. You're Roma, I'm Aryan - I'm going to exterminate you. You're a pesky Kurd - prepare to die. You're a Hutu, I'm a Tutsi. And on and on, and on. That is irrational and not natural behaviour. A lion doesn't kill a zebra because it doesn't like its stripes - it kills it because it wants a meal. Thus, Mladic stepped out of the rules of combat into where he just didn't like the zebras' stripes, and he had them butchered just because of that. Ergo, he is clearly irrational and needs to be put away. I don't care if he's shot or caged for life - I don't feel any particular morality attaches to either retributive action - he just needs to be shown no mercy, or, in a word, forgiveness.