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Shad

Why not go down to one of Gibraltar´s trendy nightspots at 2am?

A pretty and busty girl like you is sure to find one of Her Majesty´s loyal servicemen - who will be more than willing to give you a good seeing to.
 
...but theoretically your supposed to marry someone your in love with, not someone youd pay £50 to knock off..
 
The back burner bird... Nice phrase! Seriously, though, maybe you're picking the wrong birds. I have to admit I have had one or two FBs in my phone book (f*** buddies) but to be honest I am bored with them these days. And I never do snuggly, not with that type. When it works, it cuts both ways and I don't necessarily jump to the call. Only if it suits me. Which is less often now, I have to admit. Maybe I am getting old.

Just a pointer to say that not all of us women are after tying a man down. Too many men make that assumption!!!
 
No your right there is nothing better then waking up longside someone you like being with rather then waking up and sayin "Oh for **** sake, not again". Then, wheres the sock? Then she wakes up, "where you going?"....

I dont think a bird ties you down if you actually are intrested in her.
 
I didn't say I hadn't had any offers though, Relks - I'm not thatdesperate & your idea doesn't really appeal I'm afraid!!! :lol: You'd have to be pretty desperate to pick up some of the dross you get around here!!!!

Purr - you're right there, it can work both ways!! Unfortunately the most recent FB has gone & got himself a girlfriend so that's one off the list for now! :lol:
 
Latest FB?! Close you legs love, its your greatest asset :P



Shadow Leaders Letter to Aunty K....

"Am I destined to have one f/buddy after another?"

Hi Aunty K,


I’m currently single, 23 and I’m an average girl. I’ve had my heart broken by a guy in the past. We started as fuck buddies, but I fell in love with him and I was nothing to him. This went on for years as I hoped one day he’d actually realise that I meant it when I told him I loved him and that someday he’d fall in love with me. Boys have come and gone, but he was my first love. Since then, he has moved to another city and is living with another girl, but still sees me once or twice a year if he’s in town. I go to him for comfort and reassurance. Plus I’m insecure about my looks and used to think I wouldn’t get another guy.


There IS one guy who is a friend of a friend. I’ve kissed him twice and spent the night with him on one of the occasions. He doesn’t live in the same city as me. He only comes home every now and again and I make sure to go out when he is around. There’s a definite attraction, but nothing seems to happen unless he is drunk and I make the first move. I really, really like this guy: everything about him. He’s single and playing the field. He seems to want a girlfriend, but doesn’t have one. I don’t know what to do. Should I keep going with the flow to see what happens?

Shadow Leader
Former F/Buddy


Dear Shadow,


There are two lessons (maybe more) worth noting from the first boy: (i) just because you love someone doesn’t mean the laws of nature will instantly make sure he will love you back and (ii) going with the flow and accepting a sexual relationship with no boundaries is a sweet deal for any guy who’s not ready to commit and, even if he is, he’ll soon be looking beyond the no-strings sexual encounters he has currently. In other words, you have boundary issues: you need to draw in the goalposts and be philosophical about Boy Number One and, quite possibly, Boy Number Two.


By sleeping with a guy and accepting a casual quasi-relationship/friendship, you are saying, “I am worth X.” He might say, “I’m willing to sleep with a girl who’s worth X, but will only date a girl who’s worth X + Y.” (Or something to that effect.) Stop thinking of yourself as the side salad, or as something to pick at, rather than the main course.


If you don’t clearly mark out your boundaries, then they will continue to be crossed in ways that are not fulfilling or nourishing to you. Some folk can do f/buddy relationships … to a point. You, from your email, want more. Rather than starting with the sex and moving backwards to more socialising/dating, it’s easier to start from a dinner/dating, kissing/flirting beginning and THEN allow the relationship to grow towards the bedroom, with the STATED UNDERSTANDING that you want a loving/fun/monogamous relationship. You are worth it. It doesn’t make you needy. It makes you strong and independent. You have a right to these needs. You just need to give a voice to them.
 
Some people choose to keep their pants on, some decide to take it where they find it. Male or female, it's personal choice and as long as everyone is careful, then whose business is it?!!!

Sure, it's better if you care about someone and emotions are involved, but the last time I felt that way about someone I got messed all over. So nowadays I am a little more careful who I fall for, it doesn't mean I'm not up for a little bit of fun now and again.

I know, I'm an 18 carat f*** up!!!
 
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Gearoid!

& chill, sweetie....by 'latest' I didn't mean recent - I've been a very good girl & am on about a 6 month stretch!!!!! No FB's for me for about a year now!!!! :lol:

And 23 - I wish...... :lol:
 
In my eyes your 23 pet ;) 6months!! Fair play, I was last mounted by the back burner bird on Boxing Day...god she liked to be on top. For onlookers it must have looked like Hawk Wing (she had high head carriage) up on top of Jamie Spencer (loses concentration in a finish)........
 
:lol: :lol: Love the description...... :blink: :lol:

Now can you see why my first reaction to this thread was "aaaarrrrgggghhhhhh"??!!! And you're too sweet.....flattery will get you most places!! ;) :lol:
 
Its nearly got me everywhere. My girlfriend think I'm very charming. You should here the toilet talk I am capable of coming out with!

Shes in college doing nursing, I went down to spend the night with her. We were in the pub and she had her head resting up against me. I told her I wasnt feeling well and (bless her) she was rubbing my chest. I said "I get a pain just here..." and moved her hand over my heart. She says "You mean your heart?". I said "Yeah, but it only hurts when I'm not with you.."

Bucket please...
 
Running a business, a home, keeping and exercising a puppy, a cat, racehorses, helping on a forum, running a racing syndicate, a hectic social life (currently down the pub every night!!), the last thing on my mind is normally sex - or should that be normal sex.?? B)

If it's not a cup of tea and a donut on offer, I would gladly settle for a large glass of red (or champers if I have had a good win on the horses) , a cuddle from the boyfriend and the puppy and a large piece of cheese and a good DVD! :D

I think it is the stress that keeps me slim Songsheet as I never stop eating. :blink:
 
I disagree. It's a great diversion from more serious subjects such as politics and religion!
 
Sex: fantastic sport, great fun, ridiculous looking, tones the tummy, not to be taken seriously. Thassit, really.
 
Originally posted by Kathy@Apr 22 2005, 07:48 PM
I disagree. It's a great diversion from more serious subjects such as politics and religion!
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Kathy, read what I said. You are agreeing with me - I'm saying that people are over-complicating the subject - it's simpler than that.
 
Brian is suffering from a thing called marriage. While myself and Shadow Leader can have the choice to have sex when we want with any person (willing) we want and it whatever position/enviorment we choose.......

and not have to sit at the breakfeast table together afterwards...

Cant beat the F/buddy!
 
Originally posted by Gearoid@Apr 23 2005, 03:29 AM
Brian is suffering from a thing called marriage. While myself and Shadow Leader can have the choice to have sex when we want with any person (willing) we want and it whatever position/enviorment we choose.......

and not have to sit at the breakfeast table together afterwards...
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I don't recognise the scenario? Are things that different in Ireland?
 
last time i had sex was yesterday afternoon, at about 2.30, with my wife (of course). it was pure and honest sex.
 
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