I think we're all as sick and tired of the whole thing as you are, Sols, and it's gone through tragedy to farce, back to tragedy, and back to farce, so many times, in so many guises, that a bit of drama fatigue sets in.
I think the family has been marvellous in not wanting 'revenge', but justice. But, frankly, given the likelihood of that record so far, why the hell not have settled for having the fuckers shot and out the way, follow it up with Ian 'Mad Dog' Paisley (the biggest obstacle to interreligious tolerance since Pontius Pilate), and get the thing sorted.
I know everyone is supposed to be righteously up in arms about the 'scandalous' remarks made by the IRA. Maybe I am the only person on the entire planet who isn't. A finish, then and there, to the known murderers, would have been a quiet deal done professionally. Given that everyone who could help the family now appear to be suffering from collective deafness, blindness, and dumbness, their desire for 'justice' is going to be a long, exhausting, emotionally draining time for them. If they want to expend their life force on this probably hopeless quest, that's up to them. But if it had been me, knowing what we know the chances of a court appearance by the accused and witnesses would be, I'd have taken up the Special Offer.
You made the 'Mafia' connection, by the way. The IRA isn't like the Mafia. The Mafia wouldn't do a job for someone not connected to it, and within itself, there are prices to pay. It seemed to me the IRA would've cleaned the slate without expecting any false loyalties afterwards.