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I have indeed, SL. Quickly became obvious that it was the right decision when she tried to pitch up with a mate of mine less than two weeks later. Really made me wonder why I had wasted four months of my life though!
 
I once dated an American girl for about 6 weeks. For the last four I was struggling to find a way to end the relationship. She was very attractive: tall (compared to me :lol:), slim, blonde and lots of fun but she chain-smoked and got through six pints of beer on a date. And she never bought a round once.

I soon couldn't take to the taste of cigarettes off her when we kissed - the beer I didn't mind too much - and I was also teetotal when I was driving, which meant I was driving her home when she was half-pissed and smoked out. Shame really as she was a doll and great fun the rest of the time.
 
stay single Track imo...get what you need but don't have one living with you ffs..unless it really is true love..which isn't going to happen too often

men & women generally are totally incompatible..obviously there are a few people made for each other..its rare though
 
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EC1 said:
stay single Track imo...get what you need but don't have one living with you ffs..unless it really is true love..which isn't going to happen too often
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My thoughts exactly EC1.

My ideal bloke would live a few doors away. That way we need only see each other when we want to or need to.

If I did have to live with a fella, separate bedrooms would be a must. Nothing worse than not being able to sleep because of the other's snoring - and it's much more fun to go visiting!
 
All I can say you lot obviously have not found mr/miss right!

I have been with my partner for 15yrs & I can't imagine life without him

Helen
 
EC1 said:
stay single Track imo...get what you need but don't have one living with you ffs..unless it really is true love..which isn't going to happen too often

men & women generally are totally incompatible..obviously there are a few people made for each other..its rare though
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Agree 100%
 
I won't go extolling the virtues of the single life too much, as I have found another since - though I'm fairly hopeful things are looking up with this one! I certainly won't hear of talk of the bounce factor.

Desert Orchid and EC1 - fair play to both of you, though I hope your other halves don't find out about your on-going flings with Sea The Stars and Madison de Berlais respectively! :D
 
But how is it definable as to whether someone is made for another? Is it a destiny or, fate phenomena, giving a bond which extends beyond whether you both like the same music etc or not?
 
We are like chalk & cheese, we don't really like the same music, He likes the cinema, I don't, in fact apart from the shared interest in the pets we have very little in common!

We just enjoy each other & we must of known it was right from the very first time we met, we were penpals at first & from the time we first exchanged letters to the time I moved in with him was less than 12 weeks!!!

This was no light move either, I upped sticks from Bath & moved to Essex with a two year old, a dog & two cats!

Fate or destiny?
 
Never been anything poor about my finishing effort, guys...

In fact, one good gallop tends just to put me in the mood for another.
 
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