Oddly enough, I agree with all three of you.
As I said earlier, Islam is more than just a faith - it is a political template on how to lead a life.
Insofar as the Middle-Eastern nations are concerned, any move towards establishing 'democracy' in the region, must take this simple fact into account.
Almost every nation in the region (Israel and perhaps the wealthy, immigrant-dependent, Emirates apart) is almost pre-disposed to having any free-vote loaded towards theocratic parties. With the wealth of these nations dispersed so thinly, large parts of the population know nothing other than scratching-around for roots in the desert, and thanking Allah for their good fortune. Present these same people with a choice between the status-quo and an ordained route to the Promised Land, and it's little surprise that they vote in their droves for Islamist parties.This is and was the inherent danger in the promotion of 'democracy at all costs'.
It's noticeable perhaps that the (relatively) peaceful transition in South Africa was bereft of any additional, religious overtones. Maybe we we're spoiled into thinking that the inherent goodness of mankind would prevail - even in the darkest of hours?
If I saw a few more 'Truth & Reconciliation' committees being set-up in these nascent Middle-Eastern states, I might have a little more faith (if you'll pardon the pun) that pushing democracy on these countries was a good thing.