Sometimes I get to thinking that this place shares certain attitudes and procedures in common with some outlaw one-per-cent'er biker gangs ( Bandido's, Sons Of Silence, Hells Angels etc) !
A new member -- a "Prospect" in the biker gang culture -- gets a hard time of it on Talkinghorses before he becomes a fully accredited member of the club. During this initiation period he will be kicked around -- insulted and abused. Many leave during this period; one needs balls of steel to persevere.
Then, after about six months the club "elders" decide whether or not the Prospect is worthy of full membership -- whether or not he will get to be "patched-up".
If he is fortunate enough to be given his "colours" and accepted as a full member, the once-upon-a-time Prospect discovers that he is awarded a new-found respect and regard. He is "in", and everything changes. He is now part of the Gang.
It was always thus, and always will be I guess.
I myself think we should be nice to all newbies.