Being aged about 4/5 , Royal Ascot, Mum/Dad et al would go on the Heath for the week. Picnic etc. Me jumping up and down in front of my Dad taking FOREVER to pick a horse and then he always backed Lester to win, saying 'hurry up! ' ( we're talking 10p here). Me on 3rd brothers' shoulders ( 15 years older than me ) near the winning line, grey horse flashes past first but it was close. Guy in front of us turns round and says to brother 'was that X?' , yes says my brother, 'yessss' says man ' I won'. I burst into tears saying 'that's my horse, my horse' believing that only one person could bet on each horse in a race. I then also believed we could ask 'the man' if we could take said horse home as I had bet on it. Always picked greys as well - good reader even at that age.
Ascot several years later, Dad has just passed away, on a whim said to Mum do you want to go to Ascot? Then thought how insensitive was that.
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Yes she says let's go. On Heath, picnic chairs etc , me putting bets on. Saw a fabulous looking little filly go to post at about 40/50 -1 but thought she as stunning so put my bet on her. Watching them come round the final bend, she was in front. 'Oh Kags' says Mum, 'she's going to win'. Not she's not Mum, Lester's coming. She did get upset during the day, once asking Dad for inspiration to which I said it will finish second Mum and he'd have done it to win. Which made her laugh more than she cried that day.
Towcester, February 2010: miserable day. Miserable, miserable day. Ground was terrible. Almost unraceable. I told everyone not to back her, Molly, as ground terrible, distance too short. I was so mad she was running at all. Jockey told not to get behind as no 'sprint' finish. Set off at the back and I mean at the back. I'm in the stands muttering, and so is the trainer. They go past on second circuit. She's still at the back. Coming round towards home straight, commentator says, 'Mrs Fawlty's making a move'. She steadily starts passing horses which are basically stopping and she is not. Second last, she's still going well. By now I'm at the last hurdle. She's just behind the leader as they come to it. I'm screaming at her - COME ON MOLLY!!!! PICK UP, PICK UP! lands in front, picks up, obvious she's going to win. I'm in tears. Cannot believe it. Phone starts ringing. I run to meet her. Can't stop saying thank you to Jason. She's out on her feet,literally. Trainer says to him, loved the ground, no she didn't he says but she tried so hard and heard you shouting at her at the last hurdle, watch it back and look at her ears.
Ascot 22nd November 2019 watching Catterick inside the grandstand ( didn't think I could drive to Catterick and back in a day- paa! now... ) anyway, no sound obviously. Joe had been told just get him round, first time over the big fences, education etc. Always liked to be out in front, I'm dying at every fence until he clears them. Keep saying to my friend, ' how much further?' ' I don't know he says. OUt on 2nd circuit, he's still there, makes a bit of a hash of one ' ooh no Joe don't do that'. All the time, I'm talking him over every fence, loudly. They start to obviously pick up, how much further I say, I don't know says my friend, Joe asks him for a big one, takes off practically outside the wings, I am now actually having a heart attack, and he's hit the front. How much further, they must be near the end now. I don't know my friend says. Still in front and easily in front jumps fence, Joe looks round, he's well clear, Joe looks again, he starts to stop riding, no no no Joe what are you doing, don't do that! Man next to me says ' he's won love, that was the last fence'. I literally throw arms in air screaming my head off and in tears, doing the Oh my oh my oh my I don't believe it.' Tap on shoulder, turn round to see about 40 people standing there clapping. Lady says is he yours love? I bred him I say. All of them , well done love, great stuff, fantastic . Even watching it back later could not believe it. ( Many good days since obviously but that really resonates. )
Many other days of joy and some sorrow but perhaps those 4 the pick.