Actually, I have it from a friend who is a modern history buff, that there was indeed a referendum thoroughly discussed in 1982, when Argentina and Britain sat down to work out a non-conflict resolution. Al Haigh, representing US support for the Brits, being involved in mediating a peaceful resolution which Mrs T undid by firing on the Belgrano. Don't be too cocksure about the US supporting us again, though. Back in the 1980s they were busy looking for Reds under any bed, anywhere, whereas today, trade preferences have shifted and the USA is keen to do business with Brazil and Chile, two of the countries supporting Argentine dreams.
I'll have to go back about the 'sale' of the Falklands and ask my chum about it, but I think it was offered at one point to us, whereupon we turned it down, and it went briefly to the Russkies. But don't tear me apart on that until I've checked.
I'm not sure about the use of a Type 45 destroyer - aren't they rather more use in open waters, like their use in the Arabian Gulf, than close coastal work? I imagine we're really more interested in drilling for oil on the islands, though, which no-one will ever openly state, than in the wishes of a few people on a far-flung outpost of empire. Heaven forfend we be brutally honest and open about this - that's not the British way. We'll dress this up as protecting the rights of the islanders, yadda-yadda.
Clive - go and have a cuppa, dearie. All these tiresomely pointless analogies don't work. Anyone could SAY that the people want this, the people want that. Why, I think it's the usual statement by any amount of past despots that they are working in the interests of their people - it's what they want. I don't (yet) say we're despotic when it comes to self-interest, although the Falklands war demonstrated that we can blood-let like anyone else when it comes to it. But just SAYING X percent of people want this or that doesn't make it SO - unless you hold a referendum and prove it. I would have thought you'd have seen the value in that, as it's logical, irrefutable, and not just wishful thinking/hearsay, which is all that you're positing at present. And, as it was previously being seriously mulled by Britain previously, it would seem that our government thought it a good idea.
When I put forward the idea of a referendum, I wasn't aware of one being previously worked on, so when you attack my post, you also attack a notion which was being worked upon by Thatcher's govt. at the time. But just going on and on and on about 'knowing it's what the people want' is not good enough. Proof of what they want is, and this is the way to obtain it.