Col - I think you yourself have gone too far with your post above, as I can only read from it the implication that you believe it is Krizon who is lying. To make such a statement, you should support it with factual corrections of the supposed 'lies' you feel she is making.
The fact is, like most of us, you dislike personal criticism but, like the rest of the forum membership both here and on FF, you are no more exempt from it than we are, whether you own the board or not!
Krizon certainly has given her explanation as to why she decided to leave this forum, as she is perfectly entitled to do, and it's pretty interesting to note how many forum members have supported her views. As Ted started the topic to which you are referring precisely because Ardross couldn't answer his critics on here and he hasn't told any of the subsequent posters to 'ferk off', then maybe he considers a bit of free speech to be no bad thing.
For goodness sake, as An and Archie have highlighted so well, you need to move on and lose the navel-gazing a little. The fact that a few members have decided to post a lot less and frequent other forums is a simple fact of life and they shouldn't be criticised for doing so, regardless of what they might post on someone else's forum. As I've said, if Ted doesn't like it, they'll be told to ferk off and sharpish.