Some of the Syrian refugees coming into Europe have already spent up to three years in holding camps in Lebanon or Turkey. But these places were only intended to be temporary halts and people have decided to move on from them because they want to settle down and get their children educated.
I've only answered this point through Clive so far (which is a bit unfortunate) but I will come back to it, as I believe that all you're doing is affirming what I was suggesting, and that the situation in Syria could be deteriorating further with ISIL in the ascendency
Look at it logically. The early movers who took up shelter in refugee camps, or close proximity border locations, did so as you suggest, in the hope that this would just be a temporary position and that they would be able to return once the position in Syria was resolved. We know these camps didn't exist prior to 2011. Whereas their non existance before this date doesn't constitute a proxy endorsement for the Assad regime, it does rather suggest that the emergence of ISIL is the game changer.
For years the Syrians fleeing the civil war hung around here. Why? Because they hoped that ISIL would be rolled by the Syrian state, and that when this mission had been completed, they would then return? If they weren't doing it for this reason, they'd have simply moved straight through the border area and into the heart of Europe. But they didn't. In other words, they were prepared to live under an Assad (as they always have done)
So what has suddenly prompted them to start moving? You can only conclude that they've decided that the situation in Syria is no nearer being resolved, and if anything is getting bleaker. They've finally reconcilled themselves to the idea that they'll never return to their homeland and only now have started to try and pursue a different line
It's pure nonsense to try and suggest this migration is down to Assad and his human rights record. People who are falling for this western spin are clearly suspending their own critical faculties (assuming they have any) and lapping up dogma pedalled by their own disingenuous political leaders in pursuit of a cold war conditioning that they themselves are unable to throw off. It really doesn't help, and has been fatal to the wests ability to make correct strategic decisions.
By far and a way the biggest stimuli to the migration we're seeing from the middle east is war (North Africa is slightly different, albeit war is a factor there too). As I've said, I've tried to find figures for asylum claims made by Syrian nationals prior to 2011, and whereas they doubtless have been some, I can't find them. This surely tells it's own story? People don't flee tyranical regimes on anything like the scale that we're being led into believing. It's a myth. Compared to war, it's a drop in the ocean. Throughout the previous last decade the pressure came from countries like Iraq, Afghanistan, and Somalia. Again, you can easily correlate this with war
People who are identifying Assad as the problem are sleepwalking into the same mistakes made in Iraq and Libya (I exclude Afghanistan and always have done). The problem is ISIL, and more presciently, the prosaic expansion of the ISIL ideology.
If the Syrian state were to collapse next week and resistance to ISIL disintegrate what do you think will happen. How many of our half witted politicians could celebrate this with a clear conscience? Would Samantha Cameron be patting herself on the back for job well done? (she's an ambassador to save the children with a special interest in Syria). Who in their right mind could seriously be welcoming an expansion of the ISIL caliphate when it's very legitimacy in the eyes and hearts of those who've sworn loyalty to it, is predicated on the very need to seize territory each year in the name of jihad (this is a attackable weakness, the significance of which seems to have by-passed our politicians it seems again)
Please, I implore any thinking person to sketch out this scenario. What contingency does the west have in place to deal with the displacement of 10M refugees inside a fortnight? The only country who has the means and the geographic position to push through the fleeing masses and arrest an ISIL advance on Damascus and the south west of Syria is Turkey, and they'd be coming from the wrong direction!
So if war is at the root of this, then in a perverse way, war has to be the solution now too. It didn't have to be, and shouldn't have been, but because of our boneheaded political leadership through the last decade (George W Bush in particular) it is now. Anyone who thinks that creating a democracy will miraculously curtail the ambitions of ISIL, frankly belongs on a toadstool talking to Henry the frog king. ISIL will show absolutely zero discretion for the nature of a government. They'll seek to destory a democracy in just the same way as they will a dictatorship. It simply doesn't matter to them. That the west is trying to pick and mix from a political box of choclates only plays into their hands. Once you make this connection, you'll realise that Assad (in the short term at least) has more to contribute as being a part of any solution, then he does the problem.