There's a lot that doesn't sound right here Phil. Now I don't know NTL's policy and procedures and can only really relate to our own, 99% of which will conform with the law, but occasionally something slips through due to lapses in updating etc
She appears to have been given an "informal written" ?
I've never heard of such a level. Now I've heard of "informal verbal" (often called stage 1) and it's not unusal for this to be confirmed in writing later, with the stipulation that the confirmation doesn't amount to a formal warning, but rather that stage 1 has been observed etc (My God I used to have a desk full of them). Anything written is normally considered as formal, and thus a stage 2 or something called "written" or "1st written". It's possible that they might have taken her to stage 2 without having observed stage 1? In which case, they might look to invoke a stage 3 upon the next incidence, which could be "second written" or "final written".
If this is the case then they've turned an absence investigation meeting into a disciplinary hearing. In other words they could well have used an inappropriate procedure to effect an outcome. This can normally be successfully challenged through the grievance procedure. Any policy and procedure is only as good as the individual manager implementing it, and similarly, the level of theoretical protection, is only as strong as those who are prepared to invoke and fight back. I've had a few disciplinary actions wiped out in the past, when managers had sought to use the employee appraisal and review scheme to effect a disciplinary hearing/ action for instance. Put simply it isn't designed for that purpose and isn't to be used for that purpose. Any action resulting from it therefore, can be 'thrown out' (and its not unusual for the manager concerned to receive a minor rebuke and a bit of training in the process too). That they've sought to move a disciplinary action out of an absence investigation meeting strikes me as falling under this category. The normal procedure is to hold the investigation, and notify within 10 days the employee regarding the outcome, and then tell them of the intention to hold a disciplinary hearing etc
Anyone under investigation for a disciplinable offence (outside of gross mis-conduct where the action might reasonably be deemed to be immediate - e.g. smacking someone etc) has to be notified of the nature of the investigation, the policy/ procedure which is being invoked, and an offer made to them regarding the right to representation in any hearing. The representative doesn't have to be Trade Union steward, it can be a colleague, a lay person, ar solicitor, whowever, but I'm pretty certain this is a requirement of the DDA. Failure to do this, should have put them in breach of quite a few pieces of European/ UK legislation.
She needs to log all these instances of apparent failure to observe due process. I personally would challenge it through the grievance procedure for failure to observe due process, but it doesn't sound as if she's up for it, and might not necessarily appreciate the gravity of what should be facing. There is another danger about pushing other people into a conflict situation as proxys to settle wider personal agendas, and I'd be lying if I said I hadn't seen instances where I felt a Trade Unionist wasn't guilty of doing just that to an otherwise reluctant member. It's a little bit naughty, and not always a good idea, as the individual also has a habit of withdrawing as the heat gets turned up later too. On the other side though, sometimes you have to push someone a bit, because your greater experience knows what the implications of them failing to act early are likely to be. It's frequently a difficult call to make.
There is another possibility however unique to yourselves that might be worth seeking to exploit?
I'm guessing a bit, and don't know the operational details etc but I'm assuming you're due to fall under the Virgin banner shortly? Any Virgin staff will probably transfer under the protection of TUPE with better terms and conditions than NTL staff. Similarly, any Virgin managers are likely to be trained to higher standard. now if I were looking to strike back, I'd pick a time which was as most inconvenient for the manager concerned as possible. There's got to be fair chance that NTL middle management coudl be feeling a tad nervous? you might be able to observe this in them when they start having to operate with their Virgin equivilants, as a degree of sizing each other up is inevitable. I'd have thought there's a fair chance that the Virgins will be in the superior position, and if I were on the NTL side, I wouldn't want atention being drawn on to me for an apparent failure etc Most tellingly perhaps though, is the change of management arrangements presents all sides with a 'get out' route should they wish to revoke any recent decisions, or terminate actions pending.
Lets us know how you get on please, and how she is etc and I hope you feel able to come back for any help/ steer, as things like this need to be kept on top of regardless of any histories on this board
Good luck