We have spent much of the thread discussing "democracy", Ice. Clearly, an EU exit is undemocratic, if viewed through the Scottish lens.
The intent is not to 'join' the EU - the intent is not to leave it in the first place. Whilst the practical mechanics of process, probably do require a Leave/Join approach, it's basically semantics, as far as I'm concerned.
I have long defended the Union that is the United Kingdom, and viewed the desire for Scottish independence as distasteful, because I've always viewed it as petty parochialsm, drive by a narrow-mindset - the anti-English element being childish and hateful in equal measure. Besides, why be part of something small, when you can be part of something grander, right? For me, the Leave vote represents that same kind of insular thinking.
Wanting out of a UK that is no longer aligned to the EU, is consistent with my approach to the Scottish Indyref question.
But it's not about independence. It's about remaining in the EU by whichever mechanism best facilitates that outcome. I simply don't view the EU as the ogre that has been described by yourself, Clive and others throughout this thread - possibly because I've always been happy to define myself as European.....and British....and Scottish. These definitions are/were wholly-interchangable as far as I was comcerned, and represented no conflict for me.
I can no longer say that about being British, because a value-system which moves us out of Europe, is not something I can buy into on any level.